I’m not a difficult person to make
smile or laugh, but when I laugh I don’t usually laugh loudly or for a long
time. My friends have the ability to make me laugh though. Recently, I went
with my friends to a basketball game. Two of my friends were supposed to be
playing in the intermural game, but only one was. They were playing on the
“D-Team” for their fraternity, and this is a team that you can truly tell only
plays because they enjoy the game. One of my friend’s main goals is basically
to entertain the crowd when he isn’t actively playing basketball.
The silly antics of some of the
team members, and how much fun they have playing often makes me laugh. My
friend once tried and succeeded in getting his fraternity brothers to rush the
court DURING the game. That cost them a time out, but was pretty funny.
The event that really made my
friends and I bust out laughing was when my friend shot a 3 pointer, and
actually made it in the basket. We weren’t expecting him to make the shot,
since he hadn’t really made any of his shots before. We were really excited and
surprised by the fact that he made the 3-point shot, that my friends and I
busted out into laughter. He laughed about it too, and was really surprised
that he made the basket. I wish I had that moment on film! We were all so
shocked, because what happened wasn’t what we were expecting. I think that this
is one of the primary reasons that we were laughing so hard. It wasn’t because
we didn’t think he would ever make a shot, but we weren’t expecting him to get a
3-point shot, that he was just trying to toss into the hoop. I think that this
is a perfect example of the incongruity theory because we all were expecting
the shot to be an air ball or bounce off the rim, and instead it sailed in
perfectly and he got 3 points.
His reaction to the shot, which was
a combination of pure excitement and shock, helped make the situation even
funnier to my friends and I, because even he didn’t expect the ball to go in
the basket. The fact that he was smiling and shocked about the shot helped to
let us laugh about the shot because we were excited and shocked too.
In addition to the incongruity
theory, I think that this moment really showcases how laughter can be a
community inspired event. He was shocked and excited by his basket, and the
rest of the community wasn’t expecting it either. As a way of sharing our joy
and shock, we were laughing. I can’t speak for the rest of my friends who
watched the game, but laughing really helped me enjoy the basketball game and
made it fun. It was a game where we didn’t expect my friend’s team to win (they
didn’t), but he made a surprising and good shot and we were able to laugh and
relax. Even though we were laughing at the fact that he made a basket, I don’t
think that this qualifies as an account of negative humor because we were
laughing in shock and excitement, and were simply sharing our joy with my
friend who made the basket. To me, the laughter in this event had more to do
with community than with actually finding something humorous. The words and
actions of this story may not be humorous on its own, but the reaction and the
community surrounding my friends and I made the situation funny, and we were
able to laugh.
Wow! I think I should start attending intramural games! It sounds like you have some great friends who are able to laugh at themselves and each other. These to me are the best kind of friends because you can just give each other crap all the time without worrying that feelings will get hurt. I would laugh at myself if I hit a 3-point shot so I understand this point of view. I really like your theory about laughter being a community inspired event. Laughter is contagious! Great story!
ReplyDeleteI wish you would have gotten that on video too! Sounds like a funny moment! That is a great example of the incongruity theory. I could not agree more that for me laughing always occurs more often and freely when I am with my friends. Especially when a shocking but entertaining moment like that occurs, you cannot help but laugh!
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